Wednesday, November 22, 2017

Deactivating Facebook?

Assalamualaikum!
Lamanya tak tulis blog.
Saja nak update cerita setelah sekian lama.

Tajuk entry aku buat julung-julung kalinya adalah berkenaan deactivate facebook haha..
I've been very active in Facebook for so many years.
Semua benda nak cerita dalam tu. Letak gambar sendiri, gambar anak, semua benda nak cerita.
Check in sana sini pun nak cerita..
Kat ofis pergi kursus sana sini pun update.
Pastu segala macam mak nenek berita dan cerita aku nak share.
And I stumbled upon a video on YouTube about getting off the social media and the goodness you will get. Disebabkan oleh ketagihah Facebook ni dah macam ecstacy, I think I'd better slow down from the Fb.

Kat rumah asek pegang HP nak belek Fb saja. Bila anak rebut HP atau distract aku, mula lah nak marah. Sama ada sedar atau tidak, bila asyik dengan hp dan anak-anak distract kita, kita akan jadi nak marah sebab takleh fokus.

Selepas tu aku ada tengok ceramah Ustaz Shamsuri. Ustaz kata sudah-sudah la main game. Kan umur meningkat ni tak payah la dok ngadap tv sangat. (In my case, social medias since I don't really watch TV)

Yeah, betul pun. I have wasted so much time on these things especially smart phone. Jika kita check berapa banyak masa dihabiskan dengan smartphone, Fb dll, it is actually very terrifying!!!
Lepas tu dengan berapa banyak fitnah dalam facebook tu, komen2 kat Fb pun boleh tahan macam puaka. Ini tak masuk lagi dengan penyebaran fahaman liberal yang boleh menggugat iman. So I have decided to get rid of these things. Well at least Fb.

I have been deactivating Fb for 2 weeks. And you know what, it feels soooooooooo good to clear your mind from the craziness of Fb. Aku rasa Fb adalah pintu fitnah yang sangat besar. Bila aku deactivate, aku dah tutup satu lubang fitnah yang besar. Aku bukanla terminate terus. Ada banyak gambar2 yang aku sayang. Aku akan masuk sekali seminggu untuk cari seller online dan baca certain post yg aku minat macam post Prof Dr Imelda Balchin yang aku admire.

Seriously, I feel sooo good to not think about what appears on the wall. Anniversaries, birthdays, celebratios, etc, I don't wanna know too much about it anymore. And I don't wanna waste my time commenting on people's wall. I don't wanna know and I don't want to bother!!

All I want is to do something more beneficial and focus on what I am suppose to be doing. Decluttering from the social media is actually some sort of minimalizing of what you need to know. Don't waste your time thinking about other people's problem that won't be affecting you at all. Pendek kata, tak mau tau hal orang!! Before this I've minimizing my post on the wall and I only scroll down the wall. And after some motivations that I watched in  the YouTube,  I have decided to get away from it. I swear It feels soo good! You should try!

Another motivation for doing that is, after realizing how old I am now and I shouldn't be wasting my limited time. It's so sad if I die while browsing the Facebook! One of the trigger that motivates me to deactivate Fb is when my son said he don't play Fb anymore because there are so many bad people there. I will encourage my children to deactivate Fb too especially when they grow up.

I found out that I become more productive now. I don't take selfies to show off anymore because I can't post it on Fb as I used to. If I do, it is only for my family WA group. The rest, I don't have anything to show to the world. I have Instagram but it didn't really bother me. I never post anything. Just looking for online seller.

Let's just focus on my family, my work and to be a better servant of Allah.

See ya later!